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How do I nurture my emotional well-being after the loss of a spouse?

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Losing a person you shared formal vows with is one of life’s most challenging experiences. The death of a spouse is harsh because they are not only a life partner and source of companionship, but they offer emotional support. The many years spent together breed familiarity, so a spouse’s sudden absence can leave a profound void, causing feelings of loneliness and grief. It’s normal to feel emotional turmoil which can be very overwhelming.  Read more

Planning for the unthinkable: How do I discuss my funeral wishes with loved ones?

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Many of us have heard the saying that death is an inevitable part of life. Although death will come with certainty at some point down the road, all of us share feelings of vulnerability because we don’t know when it will arrive. And merely thinking about it is tough to bear! That’s why it’s not surprising at all that most people find death a difficult topic to broach.  Read more

How is technology changing the way people mourn and remember loved ones?

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Since time immemorial, technology has been revolutionizing the way people live their lives. From communication to entertainment, technology has become an integral part of people’s routines. However, this aspect has also spilled over and has begun to change how people participate in funeral activities. Have you attended a virtual funeral service or sent an e-sympathy card? Then you’ve participated in these drastic changes that are slowly becoming mainstream.  Read more

What is the difference between a coffin and a casket?

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Death is one topic that most people tackle with dread, and that’s understandable. After all, it is a sensitive issue with hardly any person finding it pleasant to talk about their demise or that of their loved ones. However, it is essential for individuals, especially older adults, to understand what happens, especially since they may be in charge of making funeral arrangements.   Read more

How do I choose the right casket?

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Retail therapy can be very fun but shopping for caskets is a whole different ball game. The pressure of buying a casket can become extremely burdensome if you’re doing it while planning the funeral of a person you love. In any case, a casket is the primary focal factor during a funeral ceremony, so it’s not something that you can take lightly. Read more

Every Funeral Director Wishes People Knew These Tidbits About Funeral Planning

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Do you know a lot about planning a funeral? If you’ve never done it for anyone before, your answer may be no or not much. And even if you’ve already helped in a past service, it’s still easy to feel unsure and overwhelmed because it may have been a while since the last event. Besides, planning funerals are naturally challenging because of the dark emotions associated with death. However, knowing what to do and what to expect from such a big life event can be comforting and empowering.  Read more

What are Good Memorial Gifts to Show Love and Support

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Are you finding a way to comfort someone who has experienced loss? Are you wondering what you can do or say to that person whom you want to sympathize with? Of course, a heartfelt and well-written letter is always a good idea but there are also other ways wherein you can show your love and care to the bereaved after the cremation or funeral services.  Read more

Funeral Song: Left and Right

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Left and Right by Charlie Puth and Jungkook

Song Lyrics

Memories follow me left and right

I can feel you over here, I can feel you over here

You take up every corner of my mind (what you gon’ do now?)

Ever since the d-day y-you went away (no, I don’t know how) Read more

Should I Tip My Funeral Service Providers?

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When you plan a funeral, you’ll realize that it takes a whole team to make sure the event goes on seamlessly and without any issues. After all, it’s not easy to prepare details and execute plans for such a trying time and sensitive matter. Moreover, you’ll likely feel very emotional during this period, so you will be relying on the support of your funeral service providers.  Read more

What is a Wake and Wake Etiquette for Guests?

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When someone moves on from this ephemeral world, it’s common for families to host a wake. In general, a wake is referred to as a memorial event or social gathering which is held before a funeral with the body present. 

In the olden tradition, a wake is usually held at the deceased person’s home. The body receives preservation treatments while the funeral services team sets up the place for viewing. But in these modern times, more and more families choose to hold the wake at a funeral home or an alternative location like a church. Read more