Coping With Death After Everyone Has Left After The Funeral

The loss of a loved one is somehow mitigated by relatives and friends during the wake. But it is after the funeral that makes death a shattering experience to those who are left behind. Friends and families from all over quickly flock to the orphaned to make the initial shock more bearable. However, once the funeral services are over, the real fight for sanity begins. This is the time when the bereaved really need something to hold on to since they are essentially left alone to nurse their feelings of loss. If you are in such a situation, you can use the following life-strategies to help you cope with death after everyone has left the funeral. Read more

How NOT to Behave At a Funeral

The Comfort and Sweetness of Peace
After the clouds, the sunshine,
after the winter, the spring,
after the shower, the rainbow,
for life is a changeable thing.
After the night, the morning,
bidding all darkness cease,
after life’s cares and sorrows,
the comfort and sweetness of peace.

Helen Steiner Rice Read more

How to find the right Funeral Director

Making funeral arrangements can be difficult. The uncomfortable feelings, the stressful and sad moments can be expected. Not many people know what exactly to do when that moment arrives. It’s not easy to choose the right person to make the End of Life arrangements with so many things going on. Funeral directors are chosen to take control of the situation that you might not be able to handle alone. The chosen firm can make the process much easier as they guide you through the proceedings. Read more

“Spirit in the Sky” by Gareth Gates

32571266385_5f5b09aee1A lot of us are uncomfortable talking about death. In fact, many wish that they never have to experience it or never find the need to talk about it. After all, we do want our loved ones to never leave us. As for us, death is the last thing on our minds especially when we are too busy trying to continuously achieve our goals and make our dreams come true. However, it will happen someday.

When the time comes that we pass on from this world, we all wish that it would be somewhere peaceful, free and filled with happiness. Whether we are religious or not, at one point, we will hope that we will be greeted by a higher being who will welcome us with open arms. Read more

“Angel” by Sarah McLachlan

27689035673_430df3e8bbDeath and loss are inevitable in life. Despite many of us dreading it, one day, we must face the music, along with our loved ones.

Each of us has different ways of dealing with death and dying. Some choose to spend some time on their own while others prefer celebrating the deceased’s life through more cheerful means. Many make sense of what they are going through by seeking songs. Read more

Shocking Last Words from 18 Deceased Celebrities

30614884543_dd4d441277We all have to depart from this world sometime. Those who get the chance, waste no time sharing their final thoughts and uttering their final words. Some are filled with wisdom and enlightenment; others may regret what they said in the afterlife. Read more

‘Growing Pains’ Actor Alan Thicke Dies at 69

5688645514_75b718e4faCanadian actor and beloved TV dad, Alan Thicke, best known for his iconic role in “Growing Pains”, has died. The real-life father of singer, Robin Thicke, was 69 years old.

Carleen Donovan, who is a publicist for Thicke’s son shared that the actor died from a heart attack on Tuesday in Los Angeles.

Playing his renowned role of Dr. Jason Seaver from 1985 until 1992 in the infamous sitcom, the show catapulted Thicke’s career. He also made cameos in other well-loved shows like “How I Met Your Mother”, “This Is Us” and “Fuller House”. He has since become a man of many talents, including a writer, composer and author. Read more

Useful Advice for Aspiring Funeral Directors

31255462481_818699676eOften, we read about what it’s like to lose someone; what it’s like to put together a funeral service, along with all the challenges that go with it. It’s uncommon for us to learn about what it’s like on the other end of the spectrum.

To say that becoming a funeral director is challenging  is a complete understatement. You deal with all kinds of things and all kinds of people, and it can take a toll on you at times. From dealing with a grieving family to handling the logistics, it’s a hard job but it is an incredibly rewarding one.

If you wish to become one, then you’re in the right place. We’ve compiled some of the best tips for aspiring funeral directors like you. Inspired by the Confessions of a Funeral Director, allow these words to fuel your passion and heed your calling as an aid to the grieving. Read more

Coping with Being Alone for the Holidays

31422104341_45c77069bdThey say there is a big difference between being lonely and being alone. Sometimes, even when you don’t have company, there are still plenty of ways to not feel sad, anxious or even depressed. This couldn’t be truer particularly when the holiday season closes in.

Not everyone gets to spend the holidays with their loved ones. The good news is it isn’t all that bad. Spending Christmas alone shouldn’t mean moping around or sleeping the festivities off. In fact, there are so many ways you can effectively cope with being alone for the holidays. You just have to know what to do and how to deal with it.

Today, we’re going to help you do just that. We’ve lined up tips to ensure that despite being alone, you won’t feel lonely this season. Read more

Arranging a Funeral

pexels-photoOrganizing a funeral is undoubtedly difficult for anyone. Just dealing with the very thought of losing someone is already overwhelming, what more having to arrange the funeral.

Some prefer not to hire a funeral director when planning a funeral. If you are one of those people, don’t feel bad about not having any financial resources to hire one. After all, the scale of how much you loved the deceased isn’t measured by how extravagant, to the dot or incredibly arranged the occasion is. Even in this situation, it’s the thought that counts. In fact sometimes, doing it yourself has its benefits. Read more